Monday, August 22, 2016

Margaret Livingstone Haldane (1836-1891)


Margaret was married to James Brown Syme. (Click here for his sketch and more information regarding this family.)

After Margaret and James were baptized members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in May 1863, they heeded the call to leave their home country of Scotland and make their way to Zion in the western United States. The family ties Margaret left behind in Scotland were severed: her parents "rejected her" and her mother warned that in America James would enter polygamy. Margaret simply replied, "Well, at least I will be the first."

Margaret and James settled in Wyoming and raised many children. Margaret was a midwife and found herself very busy at times, but never too busy to attend church meetings. On a particular Sunday, one of James' prize greyhounds desired to follow Margaret to the services. Margaret "tied a 50 pound weight" to the dog to keep him put. Despite the load, the dog, weight and all, followed Margaret, eventually jumping in through an open window of the meeting house to sit by his mistress. When Jim Ward, a neighbor, attempted to put the dog out, Jim received nothing but snarls and so the dog enjoyed the meeting right next to Margaret.

Her son Robert recalled that "[Mother] told [me] that whatever you do, it is always better to do it the right way."

Source:Viola James Reese, "Margaret Livington Haldane" www.FamilySearch.org>Margaret Livington Haldane (KWJC-6C4)>Memories>Documents


Thursday, August 18, 2016

Martin Wilford Allred (1863–1904) & Elizabeth Anderson Allred (1867–1945)


Martin (Mart) loved his identical twin brother Isaac (Ike). Curiously, when the brothers arrived at the age of matrimony they married sisters from the Anderson family. Mart wed Elizabeth and Ike chose Helena, who was two years older than her sister. All of their stories begin in Fairview, Utah.

When Elizabeth was eleven, and Helena twelve, their mother died “leaving a month old baby, Archibald Henry” (EAA). With ten children in all there was quite a brood, but they managed to pull through until their father married again about a year later (TRA, 1). Their step-mother had three of her own children, but somehow they all made it work (TRA, 1).

After their own marriages, perhaps Elizabeth and Helena remembered their step-mother’s willingness to take on more children when a returned missionary came to their doors. Fred Christensen, whom the Anderson and Allred families knew well, introduced two little girls he brought back from Denmark. Fred explained that the two youngsters, who spoke no English, were immigrating to Utah, and that their parents would come the following year. Could the sisters to care for one child each until that time? Fred asked. Elizabeth remembered drawing straws to determine which child went to which home. Helena ended up with Ollie, age 4, and Elizabeth, Victoria, age 6. The parents did come to claim their children, after twelve years.

When Mart and Ike were young they were often found together. “One drove the oxen and the other held the plow” on the farm, and they scythed hay side-by-side (IWAT). Ike remembered a troublesome stag named Old Larry. He “would work well until he got warmed up, and then he would lie down in the furrow until he cooled off; then he would get up and work until warmed up again. This would go on day after day” (IWAT). The two boys also chopped wood for their grandmother, as well as the two households of their father, he being a polygamist. On one occasion the boys had the company of two of their sisters while collecting wood. In the distance they noticed “a cloud of dust” and the sound of horse hooves. Mart, concerned that it might be Indians, dove into the nearby willows. Mart’s fears were validated when the group of Indians harassed the family wagon and team, but soon left without any harm. Mart exited his hiding place, glad to see his siblings were alive, and then all the spooked children headed home without so much as a scrap of wood (IWAT).

Once the brothers married, they built homes near one another in Fairview. Here they shared joys and sorrows—Martin and Elizabeth lost two young children, and Ike and Helena one. But new prospects were on the horizon toward the turn of the twentieth-century. Ike was lured to Alberta, Canada with descriptions of new possibilities and frontier (IWAT). By 1900 Martin too was there with his family and the brothers partnered on a farm (EAA). Tragically, in 1904, Mart died of appendicitis, “leaving Mother with a family of five” (EAA). Two years later, while still in Canada, George Randall, the oldest boy (age 16), “was accidentally killed in the Raymond sugar factor” (EAA). Having had enough of Canada, Mart’s brother, Lawrence, escorted Elizabeth and her four remaining children back to Fairview, Utah.

Elizabeth maintained her faith despite sorrow and tragedy. She clung to the Word of Wisdom and regularly sewed clothing for others, despite her battle with diabetes for the last thirty-five years of her life. She also saw to it that the family pay their tithing, despite their penury. One daughter remembered, “One Christmas, after Father was gone, Mother told the boys they had just five dollars for Christmas gifts, and they owed that for tithing. After some discussion, they decided to pay the tithing. Sherm took the money to the Bishop. On his way back, Bill came running to meet him, saying they already had the money back. The ward had given the widows five dollars for Christmas” (EAA).

Another tragic blow came in 1920 when her son, Charles William, then in his twenties, “was killed in a mine accident” (EAA). Determined to continue on, Elizabeth dedicated her life to her remaining family members. On 4 May 1945, seventy-eight year old Elizabeth passed away in Provo, Utah.

Sources:
TRA=“Life History of Thomas Reese Anderson,” available at www.FamilySearch.org>Sara Jane Rees [KWJ4-GK5]>Memories>Documents.

EAA=“Elizabeth Anderson Allred,” These We Honor: Archibald Anderson Family (Salt Lake City, Utah: Magazine Printing, 1968), C-68.

IWAT=“Isaac Willard Allred Twin,” available at http://www.allredfamily.com/isaac_willard_allred_twin.htm